There is a common accepted cliche: "There is a THIN line between love and hate". Well I am here to show and prove my understanding that this is NOT an accurate statement. This saying implies that one can go from loving another to hating them with limited, if any, provocation. Also, this is usually associated with women exerting energy that is negative, towards a man that they once claimed to love. This measurement that is equated to a "line" is not in fact thin, actually it is quite thick. One thing many men fail to realize is that there were many incidents that have led up to this change in currents from the woman manifesting these ill emotions towards them. Let us look at what LOVE is. Love is a quality of lyfe that induces, supports and manifests positivity in all aspects and variations that it exist. There is NOTHING ill, negative or condescending about love. Now some people do not know what love is and they relate it to the many experiences of their lyfe, which may lead one to actually thinking there is indeed a thin line between love and hate. B.u.t that is simply a misunderstanding on their part. Hate on the other hand is a quality of lyfe that incites, advocates and borns negativity in so many forms. Thus whenever someone that once loved you radiates these type of behaviors with you, it is probably because they have traveled through the tough terrain of hardship with no assistance from you. For example: You keep getting caught cheating on your woman, and she continuously forgives you, allowing you to remain a part of her lyfe. Then one day she finds out about your last episode with another female and spazzes out, burning all your clothes (one of their favorites), throwing paint all on your whip, et cetera. Now to the average guy, this seems like there was in fact a thin line between love and hate. B.u.t the truth of the matter is that she does not necessarily do not love you, or even hate you. She is simply sick and tired of being disrespected by your lack of consideration to her expectations of your relationship with her. Every time you got caught cheating (not every time you ACTUALLY cheated) she was on this proverbial line, actually walking across this proverbial line. Now if the line was thin as many blindly accept it to be, she would have crossed it long before your final sexual exercising session with another female, probaby when you violated her expectations with something much more less intimate --> like forget her favorite color during one of your playful quizzes. B.u.t once you got caught violating her trust, you placed her in the muck of this line --> and every time afterward, her feet were pulled deeper into and across this proverbial line. So, in essence the line between love and hate is not thin at all. Should anyone want to throw another example at me as a challenge to show and prove my understanding, I welcome it. Peace.
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